Reclaiming a Romantic Bedroom

It’s easy to let your bedroom turn into a sort of catch-all, multipurpose room. Guests aren’t likely to see it, you can’t keep every room looking great all the time, and you’re more likely to spend the time and effort on areas used by the whole family!


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Romance has probably flown out the window if your bedroom has become a home office, exercise space, and storage room. If your romantic life has fizzled, it could partly be because your bedroom doesn’t set the mood. It’s hard to be romantic when the surroundings remind you of a hundred other things that need to be done. To reclaim your bedroom as a romantic retreat, take action.

Clear Out the Clutter

Take a good, hard look at what you need in your bedroom. Romance doesn’t need an exercise machine next to the bed or piles of laundry waiting to be folded. The first step in reclaiming a romantic bedroom is eliminating distractions. Put the laundry baskets in the closet, relocate the exercise equipment to the basement or guest room, and clear out anything belonging to the kids. You want the space to be about just the two of you.

Rethink the Lighting

Harsh, overhead lighting doesn’t set a romantic mood. Choose subdued lighting from lamps or, if you have to have an overhead light, invest in a sparkling chandelier and install a dimmer switch. Switch out bright white lightbulbs for natural or warm, soft white bulbs. Low light is more romantic and enhances the mood.

Invest in Sumptuous Bedding

The bed is the focal point and should be treated accordingly. This is where all the romance will take place, so spare no expense. High thread-count sheets, a luxurious duvet, and heaps of fluffy pillows create an inviting space you’ll want to linger in. Try mixing and matching various textures such as Egyptian cotton sheets, velvet throw pillows, and a pashmina throw across the foot of the bed. What could be more romantic than lingering in a comfy, cocoon-like bed on a Saturday morning?

Banish Electronics

We’re so connected to our screens these days that it’s hard to unplug. Making your bedroom an electronics-free zone could save your marriage. You’ll be able to focus entirely on each other and won’t be hypnotized by the computer, phone, or television screens. The only exception might be a stereo, contributing to a romantic mood with the right music. Try listening to a few of your favorite songs in the evening as you relax together.

If you reimagine your bedroom as a romantic retreat for you and your partner, you may be able to rekindle the passion you shared before life got in the way. If things are still stale in the bedroom, commit to both of you seeing a doctor or talking to a specialist at ThriveMD to find out whether it’s a health issue rather than a bedroom issue.

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3 Bathroom DIY Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

A Do-it-Yourself attitude can help you refresh a tired, old bathroom on a budget. But you’ll want to be careful when tackling your bathroom without a contractor!


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If you aren’t a seasoned professional, you can easily overlook little things that lead to big, expensive problems. Before you grab your toolbelt, keep scrolling to find out how to avoid costly mistakes with your reno.

Mistake #1: Working without Turning off the Water

Whether you’re retiling the shower wall or installing a new faucet, the first thing you want to do is turn off your home’s water supply.

Turning off the water protects you against a mess if something goes wrong. And best of all, it’s easy to do.

Go into your basement and locate the main water supply valve, giving it a twist to ensure it’s off. Once you’re back in your bathroom, open up the sink and shower taps to drain off any trapped water.

Skipping this simple tip could lead to broken pipes, water damage, and long-lasting issues with mold — any of which could double or triple your original budget.

What happens if the previous owners ignored this advice, and you find water damage lurking behind your shower wall or underneath tiles? In an unexpected emergency, you may consider putting these surprise repairs on a line of credit.

Unlike a term cash advance, a line of credit is based on use, so you only pay charges on what you owe. Best of all, a line of credit can be your backup in an emergency the next time you take on DIY. As long as you pay back what you owe, you’ll have access to your full line of credit without needing to reapply.

Mistake #2: Ignoring Your Bathroom’s Humidity

Think of how hot and steamy your bathroom gets after a long shower. As one of the most humid rooms in the house, your bathroom needs special consideration.

Regular moisture will collect on walls and fixtures, so you’ll want to make sure your materials are graded for humid areas of the home.

Wallpaper: Too much moisture causes your wallpaper to peel off — or worse, become a breeding ground for mold. Look for waterproof vinyl wallpaper and mold-proof primer designed for the bathroom.

Paint: Walls in the splash zone can retain more water than you realize, so you’ll want to coat your walls in mold and mildew-resistant semi-gloss or satin paints.

Light Fixtures: If you’re replacing lights, stick with damp-rated fixtures. These lights are designed to withstand condensation that collects during a shower, and they can make your home look more expensive.

Mistake #3: Laying Tile Improperly

Tiling is a complicated and messy job that requires a steady hand and exact measurements. Mistakes like poorly graded tiles can cause drainage issues. Meanwhile, messy, cracked, or inconsistent grout work lets water through, which can lead to serious water damage down the line. Doing tiling the right way can be hard, but it’s possible.

Watch online tutorials, take out tiling books from the library, and even talk to someone at the hardware store. All the prep you do before you start can ensure the results are perfect.

Bottom Line

Unprepared, you can wind up making costly mistakes when you take on a DIY project. But a little prep, a lot of knowledge, and a line of credit empower you to complete a safe, cheap DIY reno that looks good.

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